Operation Christmas Child

Every year our local YMCA  and our church collect shoeboxes for Operation Christmas Child These boxes will go to children all across the world who would not be receiving a gift otherwise. These boxes are to be filled with toys and things for the child to do, along with any other item that may help the child.

Each year, I try to let my children pick what they want to put in their boxes. The way it works is that you start by choosing a boy or girl and then an age group. The ages are 2-4, 5-9, and 10-14. My girls like to pick within their own age group.

This year we packed Brita water filter bottles, crayons, coloring books, scratch paper, Lifesaver candies, gum, soap, floss, toothpaste, toothbrushes, combs, dolls, little trinket toys, little glitter crafts, and a few other odds and ends.

For the boy gift since it was 2-4, I got a Grover toy, Play-doh, ball, crayons, coloring books, paper, a toy dinosaur, a plush stuffed horse, Smarties, a recorder (the instrument, which I’m sure his parents will just LOVE), a toy car,  comb, toothpaste, toothbrush, floss, and a Brita filter bottle.

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I like to pack these in a plastic box so the child can use it for a long time.

This year the children are going to track their boxes to see where they end up.

I really believe that showing love even in these small ways is the way we make the world a better place.

At a time when what we see around us looks far from what we wish it would be, I believe that love changes things. I hope that my children will look for ways to show love to people from all walks of life, from all areas of the world, in big and small ways, always.

 

Little Things

Sometimes it’s the little things that you cherish the most.

My Granny has been gone now for 12 years. I still think about her just about every day.

She was funny. I don’t think she always meant to be; but something about the way she was brutally honest made me laugh.

She had the most amazing and greenest thumb I’ve ever see. My niece still has a plant that is thriving from my Granny’s house.  (She’s given me shoots from it several times and I’ve killed them every time)

She was a hard worker. In her life she had more heartache than I can imagine. As a young girl, she was sent to be a house maid for a family because her parents had gotten a divorce (in the 1930s-can you imagine?) She lost two husbands, one to cancer and one to suicide. She was a single parent for many years.

She was beyond creative. She made clothes and quilts and pillows. I’m convinced there isn’t anything she couldn’t have made. While my sister has the quilts and such, I have a few little things that she made that I cherish.

This is a chair she made out of tin can. A. Tin. Can! I can only imagine how sharp it was and how very difficult it was to make. She even sewed that little cushion for it. I would never have the patience or the creativity to make this. I think that me thinking of her making it is my favorite part.

Here’s another one. It is woven and curled. How did she do that? The little cushion is just a piece of fabric, stuffing, and cardboard.

I keep these two little chairs that my Granny made in my china cabinet. I always think that I’d love to find a place in my house where I can show them off and have a chance to tell people about that great little lady who I loved so much who made them. They may just be little things, but they mean so very much to me.

Chicago

This southern girl loves warm weather. I don’t care for freezing temperatures or snow. Given these facts it seems crazy that I could love Chicago the way I do. I’ve been overseas and I’ve been lots of places in the U.S too. Chicago is my favorite place to visit without the children (so far). I must throw the disclaimer out there that I’ve never been there in the winter and honestly don’t plan on it.

There are so many things to love so I’ll just name a few.

The Art Institute. I could spend ALL day there. I have always loved art. I love learning about the artists and seeing these paintings or other pieces of art that I’ve seen in books. There is so much to see.

The Field Museum of Natural History. This is yet another place I could spend a full day. There are amazing things to see and learn while you’re there. It seems like I never have enough time. If you go, don’t forget to meet Sue. She’s hard to miss.

The Museum of Contemporary Art.  I wasn’t sure how much I would like this place, but surprisingly I really enjoyed it. I love art that I can understand even if it requires some explanation. My favorite things in this museum were the sculptures. It amazes me how creative some people can be.

Magnificent Mile. There are endless things to do here. I cannot lie and say I don’t love a little shopping. The stores are fabulous and this southern girl even thought most of the people working in them were friendly.

Also, the architecture on the buildings is incredible. There are so many amazing works of art that are part of the building themselves.

The John Hancock Center. The views are unbelievable! Truly amazing.

Chicago has an endless array of restaurants. My very favorite is  The Grill on the Alley. It has a lot of special memories for my husband and me. There used to be a server there named Manfred that we always requested. My sweet husband even got him to write me a birthday note one year when he went there on business. Manfred always had two jokes ready to tell…a clean one and a dirty one. We always had him tell us both.

On our last visit we ate at both RPM Italian and RPM Steak. These are Giuliana and Bill Rancic’s restaurants. The vibe was electric in both places. It was a little more “hot” at RPM Steak. With that said, I preferred everything about RPM Italian. The food was out of this world and I even was able to stay low carb there. Neither place felt stuffy. Both were really fun. The food was good at both, but RPM Italian is most certainly a place I want to visit again and again.

On my last visit, my niece and I walked over 30 miles in the few days we were there. Our husbands were at a conference and we had the days to ourselves. We had such a good time! We were on a hunt for consignment shops. Those stories deserve their own post.

Anyway, we had such a great time really exploring the city and we were so proud with how well we were able to use the Chicago skyline like the northern star. We went everywhere and never were lost!

I don’t know when my next trip to my favorite city will be, but it won’t be soon enough!

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Ancestry DNA

Two years ago for Father’s Day we got my dad the Ancestry DNA kit. It was what he wanted and specifically asked us to get him. Now, we all assumed that it would come back telling us that he was 90% German. What we knew from his family was that his father’s parents had come from Germany before they’d had children. We knew very little about his mother’s side and because her maiden name was German sounding we thought that she was also German.

After a few weeks, he got the results and they were a complete surprise.

That man is BRITISH. He has a little Western European in him, but way less than we thought. Once we got started on the website we were able to start making a family tree. It even links you up to cousins that match up with your DNA. It’s been a fun project..

I got my own kit and was shocked that I am 20% Irish. I didn’t know I was Irish at all. Now, both of my parents, in-laws, husband and lots of friends have done it too. It really is fun. The anticipation of waiting was even kind of fun. If you choose, it can be a lot of work too.

So after many hours of work I found out things I never would have dreamed. One thing that completely shocked me was that most of my family on both sides have been here for a long time. Many of my relatives were part of the Revolutionary War.

Some came over later and I’ve even seen their names on the passenger’s lists for the boats on which they arrived. Some seemed like nice people and others maybe not so much. You can’t pick your family.

Some of the coolest things I’ve discovered are the people way back in the past. 2108

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What this particular discovery had led to has been really fun and interesting. Our history lessons this year (we use Ambleside online) have been all about Medieval British history. It’s been neat to read and learn about these great grandfathers. The children have been far more excited to learn about British history because it’s related to them now.

If you’ve ever considered doing your Ancestry, I would highly recommend it. It’s been an amazing experience.

Until next year…

This weekend I will be putting all of my favorite decorations away. I love my Halloween decorations so much that they actually get dragged out of storage the week after Labor Day and happily put out in their places.

I try to buy as much as I can after Halloween to store away until the next year.  I love pulling out the new stuff every year. 171
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180As I lovingly pack away all my decorations, I am honestly counting the moments until I can replace them with Christmas things. I have a weird relationship with Thanksgiving…it needs better decorations. How can I decorate with a variety of casseroles and a parade I haven’t even seen this year. Forget about the Pilgrims (they’re outfits are atrocious). Until next year, Bony Moroney! You and you’re little dogs will be missed!

Hello Out There

I’ve been thinking of starting a blog for a while and finally decided today was the day.

I’m Samantha and I live in the south and I have my whole life. I tend to fall in love with all things sweetly southern. I love being called “Darlin'” and “Sugar” by perfect strangers. I love talking to people. I love manners. I love planning and hosting almost any kind of celebration. I love Disney. I love monograms. I love the beach. I love my family most of all!

The “Loved” part of the blog name comes from the first letter of each one of my children’s names. (We had L,O,V without realizing it and then purposely named the last two names that would finish it.) I am blessed to be their mother and a wife to a great hard-working man!

I hope this little blog will help me better document our family moments, as well as a way to get to “talk” to people I would never get to know otherwise.

I can’t wait to meet you!!

LOVED and Pooh in WDW

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